An Ode to Men: Joni Mitchell’s Songs About Lovers and Pals

Coyote – A Muse Over Sam Shepard

“No regrets, coyote
We just come from such different sets of circumstance.”

The opening track of her 1976 album, Hejira, is Coyote, a song that chronicles Mitchell’s brief love affair with the playwright Sam Shepard, which took place in 1975. The pair made an appearance on Bob Dylan’s all-star Rolling Thunder tour that year. (Dylan hired Shepard to write the script for the movie based on his tour).

Joni Mitchell, Richie Havens, Joan Baez, and Bob Dylan perform onstage.

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In essence, Shepard is the womanizer to Mitchell’s one-man band (so to speak). Their affair was short-lived yet long enough to inspire her to write a song about the guy. The song mourns their “different sets of circumstances” and how hard it was for her to maintain a fruitful relationship.